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Sunday, February 24, 2013

Stay in your lane...

Often a time, when we as humans are faced with situations that seem to challenge us, we have the tendency to react defensively. Others go the venomous, malicious, degrading, name calling, judgmental and talk down at route, while others go the pity me, why me, victim mentality route, while others take the most pretentious self elevating, I don’t care what you think of me route, while very few take the most simple, yet effective think before you act/speak route.

 Let me get straight to the point: nothing in this world is permanent. Today’s weakling can be tomorrow’s life changing hero, whilst today’s hero can be tomorrow’s disgrace. The power is in our minds. Before you react to your challenges think about what that challenge is bringing into your life. The easier it is for you to take offense is directly related to how weak and underfed yr mind is. Do yourself a favor and be your best friend always. Instead of worrying about other people’s opinion of you, worry about the fact that their opinion bothers you that much.

 Take your power back; know that people’s reactions to you are nothing but feedback. Use that feedback to better yourself and your stance in this world. It’s not meant to define you but to refine you. It is never about whether the feedback is true or not, but about what it is meant to teach you about you. You are an eternal being; refuse to live for today when you are destined for forever. Look inside you and be real about you see. Have the courage to ask what are you doing to make this world’s reaction to you better or worse, change what is necessary and life goes on. Stay teachable, and do not let this world dictate your worth and hold you captive to your past and bad decisions.

 Just as the season’s change, the course of your life can too. People can write you off but do not ever write yourself off. If you choose life and start applying your mind accordingly, life will choose you right back. Stay in your lane and concern yourself about the only person you have complete power over and that person is YOU. Remember, we are the world. It is not on the outside but inside each of us, if we change n better ourselves, we change and better the world…..it is never too late!!!

 ZeeK Love...